No support on support forums?

Well I am a member of a few message boards that are supposed to be support forums but so far I have received no support and have just had people judge me for the most part. I just don't understand why people need to feel superior and kinda well snobby towards others? There are some in my situation and they are supportive yet the ones that haven't had to go through all this are just non sympathetic at all. I do understand that everyone has their own opinion but seriously people? Can't we all just get along? I have been stressed to the max already and to me it is not right to add stress to anyone.